My kind.

A woman who isn't afraid to be alone loves by choice, not desperation. If you cross her, she won't fight to keep you-she'll simply replace you with the peace you disturbed.

So take this as a warning: underestimate her independence, and you'll quickly learn-she doesn't just survive on her own... she thrives.

And games? They only reveal what she already knows-that you're not worthy of the depth she brings. She doesn't need to make a scene or plead for attention. The moment she realizes her time is being wasted, she'll walk away-not with drama, but with quiet, steady resolve. Right back to the serenity she built before you ever showed up. Your half hearted love won’t grib her.

It’s such a common — and deeply human — experience.

Catching feelings after amazing sex happens because, for many people, physical intimacy is more than just physical. When your body feels safe, seen, and deeply connected, it naturally opens the door for your emotions to walk through too.

Here’s why it can hit so hard:

Oxytocin: During sex — especially good, connected sex — your brain releases oxytocin, often called the “bonding hormone.” It’s the same chemical released during cuddling, birth, and breastfeeding. It makes you feel close and emotionally attached.

Validation and vulnerability: Amazing sex often involves a level of trust, surrender, and vulnerability. Feeling desired and accepted can feel emotionally intimate, even if there’s no official relationship.

Projection of possibility: Sometimes we don’t just fall for the person — we fall for the idea of them, or the version of us we feel we could be with them. You might be catching feelings for the connection, the warmth, or the way they make you feel about yourself.

Desire for more: If your body and heart are craving connection, love, or partnership, your mind can naturally fill in the blanks — hoping that physical chemistry might grow into something deeper.

Nothing but love from,

A Lover gal. xoxo

Watching Moulin Rouge in the theatre is like being swallowed whole by feeling.

The singing, the dancing, the costumes, the lights — it's not just a show, it's a full-body experience. Everything is turned up: the colour, the movement, the emotion. One minute you’re laughing, the next your chest aches in the most unexpected way. It’s intoxicating.

There’s something about seeing it all unfold live — the voices filling the room, the choreography so sharp and wild, the costumes glittering like a dream. You can’t help but be swept up in it. It’s romantic, chaotic, heartbreaking and utterly electric.

I CRIED.

It made me feel alive. Like I could burst with every note, every spin, every tear that dropped on stage.

It reminded me why I love theatre — because it holds space for us to feel everything all at once.