Slow & Steady

The way we crave closeness so deeply, we sometimes mistake familiarity for fate. But the heart deserves more than fantasy-it deserves reality that chooses you back, slowly, clearly, and without confusion. True connection isn't built in the rush; it's revealed in the quiet unfolding, in showing up over time, not just in moments of magic. So pause. breathe & let love show you who it really is before you hand it everything that you are. You're worth more than temporary sparks— you're made for a steady flame.

Let Him Go Back to What He Knows

Some men can't handle a woman of substance. Your peace feels foreign, your standards seem demanding. Where you bring maturity, he creates chaos. Where you offer love, he sees leverage. Don't shrink to fit his limitations. You weren't made to fix broken men or nurse dead connections. You're here to bloom not beg for bare minimum love. The right man won't fear your light; he'll reflect it. He won't mistake your strength for struggle or your worth for negotiation. Walk away. Not from love from lessons. Every time you choose yourself, you honor the queen you're becoming. Let him return to what he understands. You... Keep rising. The right love won't ask you to dim your shine it'll meet you at your altitude.

Girls, Girl.

Whenever I’m at a table with new people, some sort of friendship conversation always comes up and with confidence I sit there and speak about the friendships that I prayed for and waited patiently for. I’m so fucking grateful for the women that I have in my life and this is why my standards will always be high.