Tillies Topic - Love Duh.

True love is not just passion or grand gestures—it is quiet understanding, unwavering support, and choosing each other every single day. It is feeling safe in someone’s arms, being seen for who you truly are, and never having to pretend. True love weathers storms, grows through challenges, and deepens with time. It is not about perfection but about two souls embracing each other's flaws and still saying, "I am yours."

I thought when I was deeply in love with someone that was enough. I look for three important things now and i hope the person who meets me does the same:

1. It's best to be deeply in love with someone as an individual, separate from their connection to you. Do I love who you really are deeply?

2. Do I love the way you love me? Do I love the way you show up for me, the way you support me, how you show me affection, the way you are as my partner? Do I love the way you love me?

3. Do I love the kind of life and world you are trying to create? Because for this to work, I'm going to have to create it with you.

And those are my non-negotiable, this is the data we should all be collecting from each other and i just pray that the peoples we meet show up as their true self to save on so much time. in the mean time.....Being single is a gift—a time to grow, to discover who you are, and to build a life that fulfils you. It is a season of self-love, freedom, and endless possibilities. True love is never rushed; it finds you when the time is right. Be patient, trust the journey, and know that the love meant for you will arrive when you are truly ready to receive it.

I LOVE, LOVE.

As always,

Well.

Hello Lovers,

It's been a while, hasn't it? Weeks, I know! HOW THE HECK ARE YA???

I've attempted to write about five times, and each attempt just didn't feel right. I wrote a lot, overthought everything, and ended up deleting it. It was disappointing because I've missed it so much! But we're back. Quick story: We lost a family member, my Granddad, three weeks ago, and I've been looking after my Mum. I've been feeling on edge and exhausted but HAPPY, all while working long hours, hitting the gym, and networking. Some nights, I've been at a loss for words, yet I have SO much to talk about. The past few weeks have felt like holding your breath, needing fresh air desperately. (Laughing at how wild it's been) My Granddad's passing was a "part of life" moment for me, yet also a strange, indescribable situation. I feel different, my Lovers, I feel really... different! there's been a beautiful balance in it all I'll tell ya that. There's so much I want to discuss. I'm going to list the topics below, hoping you'll understand or find it amusing or relatable. You'll love this... I've been recording voice memos to listen back and write it all out! ive been feeling like a journalist and it felt great! ill be blogging eacho Topic by the time i post the last topic ill be back to feeling a beautiful sense of freedom and i cant wait to tell you the WHY.

Tillie's topics 

• Crushes

• Work and no Play

• Why i feel Different

• Love Duh

• Mood Boards 

• Hair and make up

• What i want

• GOOD NEWS

• Travel Plans

• Creativity

As Always my Love,

-Nothing But Love 

xoxo

T

Through my eyes.

I hope you finally get to realise the things that make you so beautiful, the very details of your gorgeous, i hope you see its not just your eyes or your skin but the way you see beauty in everything that surrounds you. I hope you see that there is so much beauty within you too. pure beauty - I wish you could see what i see.