Reminder.

This is your reminder to not suppress your feelings, I hope you have the support you need to be able to release your emotions, it’s okay to keep moving forward whilst remembering to feel. Hold your loved ones a little tighter ♥️

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Hello, beautiful human beings,

This is going to be one of those bla bla freaking blaaaaaa/biggest catch up!

Firstly and most importantly, how are you? How has life been treating you? Please feel free to use the comment section as therapy and just let rip on everything good or bad! If you don't sign in or have an account on my website, you'll be anonymous - absolutely no judgement here. Love ya!

So LIFE (Sorry, I must let my passionate French out to feel better) 

Life be fucking lifing, man, working my absolutely growing juicy ass off, making that bloody bag for big goals. It feels great but it is fucking mentally exhausting, and I'm doing everything to not lose myself. There is so much beauty & creativity around me that's helping me, and my fucking lord, am I GRATEFUL. Jesus, this feels so bloody good. Shout out to myself and my tools and my people. Seriously, I am blessed. I truly feel like a weight has been lifted off of my shoulders writing that. WOW! Let's get into it.

So I have this thing with working where I cannot and point blank refuse to stay in the same place for years/ sign i full time contract until till its my own business of course. So I have many different jobs i work in many different places, and I've been trying to find a beautiful balance with it, and everything is going rather well for me at the moment on that side of things, im in my era of not striving to be well known, im striving to be worth knowing. So if you want to work with me on exciting things, holla at me. So..Over the past 2 months I was so close to buying a house but decided to hold back one more year because if I did it now, I would have no cushion, aka savings left. I want to make this big important moment for me as beautiful as possible and with ease. I never really saw myself buying a house over the next 5-ish years, but my soul & creativity is desperate for somewhere to call home & im giving it just that! at 33 years old i have only once felt what i think might have been what ''A Home'' feels like! So the next year is going to be about the bag, networking, and of course, joyful living!

I've been healing and growing a lot, you know (it's a forever thing, self-love, baby). I was looking at my photo gallery and found that this time last year, I was absolutely broken, and I mean in the absolute pits of heartbreak and disappointment. It was sad to watch, but at the same time, I feel like I was taking lighter and easier breaths mixed with that moment of "everything happens for a reason," as I'm now completely free from what was hurting me so deeply. But I do want to leave this little note for the ones who might read this... the ones who were a part of my pain: I forgive you, I wish you THE BEST, and FUUUCCCCCKKKK YOU.

My people around me are thriving and surviving in life, and we are all really trying to help each other out. It's beautiful, and it's working out for all of us and what i mean by that is its uplifting us and helping us through. They are told a lot how grateful I am, and we speak so much love upon each other. So here's your reminder to let your people know that they are strong and powerful and that they are one of your favourite parts of existing.

There is a family member of mine who is on end-of-life care. Death isn't new to me; I was introduced to it very young and experienced a lot of it. Currently, the only thing that scares me at this moment in time is how some of my family members will deal with the grief. It's got me reflecting on how you really don't know what people are going through, and it really makes me grateful for who I am as a human being. Always moving with love and generally wanting everyone to win. It's so important to understand that people remember how you make them feel. Is there a way of coming to a point in life to fully accept death and not be afraid of it? I would love to know. Hold on tight to your loved ones & Be Kind.

I miss hanging out in coffee shops. I have this massive craving to flap my feathers and swing my hips, a.k.a. I need a little night out, which I'm doing on the 1st. I'm not going to drink because I'm too focused on my well-being, and I don't want to get burned out. But I am going to VIBE because I'm good at that! Hehehe. Also, 3 months until summer, sugar plums, and once again, I just want to feel sexy. I want to go to the beach in a thong; I want to be half-naked A LOT! I can't wait to see my freckles again.

Music. Finallyyyyy I have new music in my life that is giving me all the delightful, sexy, romantic, uplifting feelzzz! My current 2025 playlist is just beautiful. I made it at the start of February, and it's been helping me really romanticize my life, especially on my commute to work. Last week the sunrises were just gawjusssss while I was listening to my music; it really set my day off nicely. Oh talking about cars... Guess who drove around for 3 months with no MOT!!! were are not going into the reasons why i booked my car in but forgot to tell them it needed a MOT.

I hope my Bla bla bla post makes you feel like a human being. I've overthought this one a little, but fuck it. I'm here for a good time, not a long time, so here's some personal deep shit.

I'm going to leave this bla bla blog here. I've got clothes to iron and my hair to wash! Urgh, an everything shower! But with clean sheets! BLESSED. Ready for another 6 days of work. Let's have it!!!! Whenever you see the title BLA BLA BLALALA, just know it's a fat catch-up.

As always.

Nothing But Love

T XOXO

Life is too short to deny how sexy you are.

Some examples of sexy words include beauteous, bewitching, aphrodisiac, mature, provocative, Go be sexy.